I’m at peace as my sexy wife starts binding me into my bed. Chastity device firmly in place, my body lashed down in a spread-eagled position. My ass penetrated by her favorite plug, my locked away cock penetrated by her catheter, a convenience for her so she need not worry about me making a mess while she is gone.

Earlier I helped her get ready for this. I shaved her glorious pussy, bathed her curvy body, and kissed her spectacular ass. I helped her pick out her hottest lingerie, her most daring clothes. I polished her high leather boots and helped her into them, as any husband should.

She is almost done now, I’m almost bound. I love watching her prance, watching her showoff as she binds me into place. I find perverse delight in gazing upon her body, a body that I am often denied.

She kisses me forcefully then bounds out of my room.

She is off. Off to see her lover. They will share a magical night while I lay here in my bed and dream. Dream of her, of her taking her pleasure, of her finding that pleasure in another man, of my own denial.

Is she cruel? Yes, but only because I desire her to be so. Does she delight in my suffering? Yes, but only because I need to suffer for her. Am I treated as little more than her property, her thing? Yes, but only because she knows that by treating me so she brings me to the ultimate heights of joy and fulfillment.

She will come back to me. An hour, a day, I never know how long it will take. She always comes back to me though, always comes back for she loves me as deeply as I love her. When she does I will lovingly lick her lovers cum from her divine pussy, lick as she tells me of her adventures, lick as she informs me just how long I will remain locked in my chastity device.

A hot fantasy. A hot fantasy enjoyed by untold numbers of men, and their exploring wives. Unfortunately a hot fantasy that can go horribly wrong.

A fatal mistake. A family that objects to bdsm and polyamory. A justice system that doesn’t understand kink.

Woman charged with bondage death of husband

Unsupervised bondage is extremely dangerous. Know the risks, work to minimize them, always endeavor to play safe.

Recognize that even with the greatest of caution accidents can happen. Protect yourself and your partners. Leave a trail of some sort so that your play can be shown to have always been consensual even if you aren’t around to explain. Build friendships with kinky people, friends who can help you play, fulfill your fantasies, explain to authorities the nature of your kink if you are unable to do so and it must be done to protect the one you loved most deeply.

Find a local kinky group. Get involved. The people there can teach you about playing safe, about protecting yourself and your partner. Don’t repeat the mistakes made by others in the past.

Read books, read online, and learn to separate fantasy from fact, play accordingly.

In all things, protect yourself, protect your partner. When that is taken care of, by all means revel in that hot fantasy, that amazing play.

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I find it interesting that people have a hard time understanding how I can emotionally handle polyamory. They seemed shocked that I can deal with the fact that my wife plays with other people constantly and has no qualms at all about using someone else for her own sexual pleasure.

I’ll admit that it’s a bit strange listening to ones wife professing her love to another man, but strange is all it is, not cause for rage, envy, or anything of the sort.

For those who wonder how we can emotionally handle our rather unique lives, all I can say is look at what we have.

I am blessed with two beautiful, exciting, passionate women, both of whom love me and I do not have to skulk around, deceiving people while having an illicit affair.

All I had to do to have this was not look at my wife as if she was property to possess and control. I had to allow her the freedom to find happiness in ways different from the happiness she finds with me. She had to do the same for me.

I will not claim that the journey to successful polyamory was an easy one, for it was not. The payoff however was worth much more than the price we paid.

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In the bdsm world we are forever labeling others, and ourselves. Roxanne doesn’t much like the label submissive being applied to her; especially I think when she sees it in print. I believe that she much prefers other labels, labels that many would find a good deal more offensive.

Thinking about all of this got me to thinking about myself. The labels I give myself. Master, dominant, top, shaman, which is it, which should it be? I suppose it depends a great deal upon whom I am playing with at the time. One would be hard pressed to label himself Master while playing with a confirmed bottom for example. It also depends I think upon the scene of the moment. Is the scene being done for personal healing or growth, some other higher purpose? If so, shaman seems much more appropriate than any of the commonly used bdsm labels.

Certainly we are all so much more than the labels we choose, whatever we decide to call ourselves. It is I think always good to look beyond them, to consider other possibilities, other labels for the moment.

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Camella Farms, Human Livestock Research and Information Services. A rather odd title and theme for a bdsm site I suppose.

What ornery guy, as a little kid, doesn’t dream of being a rancher, a cowboy like John Wayne at least once in awhile, and didn’t most of us play Cowboys and Indians from time to time, perhaps affecting our kinks today?

Well, there are no ranches here in the Puget Sound, but we do have farms. Little farms with singular names, ‘Riverside Farm’ could exist almost anywhere here. Little kids don’t dream little though, and the big farms here all use plural names, ‘Riverside Farms.’

Camella Farms, a flight of fancy from a simpler time.

One can’t be a rancher though without livestock, and what better livestock than wonderfully diverse human livestock? Much more fun than John Wayne’s Texas Longhorns I’m sure.

Research and Information Services. Well, I suppose research might not be a necessary part of this blog’s mission. We already take every opportunity to experiment upon our human livestock, upon the wonderful submissives who populate our lives. Information though, that I hope to provide to my readers in abundance. I hope that this blog encourages my readers to live their dreams; I hope it helps to teach them how to do so safely, while maximizing their own enjoyment, and the enjoyment of those they play with.

There you have it, the ‘why’ behind the bdsm blog with the funny name.

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I thought it might be helpful if I gave a bit of a back story for each of the players, for each of the people you will be reading about here on the blog.

You’ve already read about me, I’m your host, Cam. If you missed it, I posted about myself here.

Next I should mention my beautiful wife Milliscent, the Dominatrix of the house. A woman who absolutely delights in playing with her myriad of submissives and who never feels that kink should be relegated to the dungeon alone. She’ll laugh while you suffer for her; yet exhibit a loyalty almost unbelievable in scope. You can learn more about her here on the blog, or elsewhere on the web here and here.

It’s certainly not a person, but it does play an important role in all of this. The marriage. Milliscent and I have been together for more years now than all the years of our childhoods that were not spent together. A very long time, a happy union that has stood strong longer than the vast majority of romantic relationships. In addition to the simple number of years we have shared together is the quality and connectedness of those years. We both own our own businesses. We always have. That seems to keep us together 24/7/365. Growth is inevitable in all relationships, and we have been blessed to grow together. It is amazing how much alike we have grown to be. In many ways we think alike, we talk alike, we know what will be said long before it is said. We do play together, that play forever evolving, changing. We feel one of the most amazing things about bdsm is it’s tremendous range of enjoyments, over time we have explored many. We think it important for our readers to understand that how we play together now is not the same as how we have played together in the past, nor will it be the same as how we play together in the future.

We come now to her close friend and lover Eagle. A gentleman beyond compare whom she is always able to find delight within. He has been with her for quite some time now, living in our house about half of each week, almost as a second husband. Sub or bottom, I’ll let you decide as you learn about him here.

I would be remiss if I did not now mention Tammy. Our amazing and wonderful neighbor. A m to f transvestite, Tammy is without question both the finest bondage top, and bottom we have ever met. No tie is too intricate, no plan to complex. If all neighbors were as kinky, and helpful as Tammy the world would be a much better place.

I now have the opportunity to introduce Roxanne. A rare beauty, a woman I’m proud to call my lover and my sub. We can’t have anyone else calling her sub though for she is anything but. A strong woman who takes pride in her strength, willing to submit to me but few others indeed. She just might enjoy taking the whip to you though.

Many more people fill our lives, kinky and not. Over time you will get to read about some of them here on the blog, the kinky ones anyway!

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Roxanne lives a couple hours away from us, and she had to return home the day before yesterday. A sad parting made less so because our next visit is already planned.

Last night though, as I climbed into bed I was graced with the scent she had left behind. A wonderful mixture of her perfume, her shampoo, her body. A scent which brought her instantly to mind for me, and which served as a reminder of the wonderful time we had shared.

This morning I was greeted by her again, her scent upon my towel.

I miss her already, but I know she will be returning very soon.

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The beautiful and exciting Roxanne, up on all fours, her back arched provocatively.

Her long black hair is clenched in my fists, and I’m pulling, I’m pulling her back with all my might as I’m thrusting my hips forward to meet her.

Each pull, each thrust elicits cries of pleasure that are music to not only my ears, but my heart as well.

My cock brings her cries, it has become a tool in my domination of her, a tool for cruelty and pleasure, an energetic force in and of itself, hard and throbbing as it violently ravages her body.

She loved it, she still felt it the next morning, and she is coming back for more. Life couldn’t be better.

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Come join us as we discuss radical sex, radical politics, radical love, and radical spirituality.

Dominance, submission, bondage, discipline, sadism, masochism, libertarianism, polyamory, hedonism, and magic; these things call to us.

Orgasm and orgasm denial, whips and chains, pain and love, reason and liberty, exploration and ethics, joy and delight, spirit and flesh. These things fill our lives; they will fill our little blog as well.

We live a joy filled and fulfilling life, a fantasy life full of Mistresses, Masters, slave boys and girls, a life in a world of our own choosing. A life others only dream about leading.

We hope that over time this little blog will become our story, the story of our lives.

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Hi, I’m Cam.

I’m a 30 something heterosexual, polyamorous, mostly dominant, sometimes switchable, male. I’m the author of this blog.

I live with my shockingly sexy wife, a dominatrix by both vocation and avocation. We both have very special lovers, a submissive boyfriend for her, and a submissive girlfriend for me. Bedtime around our house can get awfully exciting as the sounds of overwhelming pleasure loudly cry out from our bedrooms.

In addition to those already mentioned, we have a wonderful circle of kinky friends, many of whom are able to join us for playtime on a frequent basis. We do delight in all of our friends, and we are always hopeful of making new ones as well.

We live in a strikingly beautiful part of Washington State, deep within the Cascade Mountains waking up each and every morning to a truly breathtaking view of nature. A small home, filled with glass, assures that we miss none of the beauty surrounding us.

We have created an equally amazing playspace, a bdsm studio beyond compare. A dungeon that we feel must be among the very finest in the world. Superbly outfitted and equipped of course.

Most people don’t get to live like us. For various reasons they just can’t pursue the pleasures that we are blessed to experience on a daily basis. I hope that changes over time. I hope that this little blog gives it’s readers the courage to go out and live their dreams, whatever those dreams may be.

Thank you for reading my blog, for reading about our lives. I hope you enjoy your time here.

I can be reached at:
cam@camellafarms.com

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Some links to other wonderful places on the web:

Extreme Restraints

Water Bondage

Mistress Milliscent

Milliscent’s Blog

DungeonNet

DOMestic

Alexis

Men In Pain

Fucking Machines

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We seek the one perfect person to come join our chosen family, to come be our housewife.

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