Blessed
I find it interesting that people have a hard time understanding how I can emotionally handle polyamory. They seemed shocked that I can deal with the fact that my wife plays with other people constantly and has no qualms at all about using someone else for her own sexual pleasure.
I’ll admit that it’s a bit strange listening to ones wife professing her love to another man, but strange is all it is, not cause for rage, envy, or anything of the sort.
For those who wonder how we can emotionally handle our rather unique lives, all I can say is look at what we have.
I am blessed with two beautiful, exciting, passionate women, both of whom love me and I do not have to skulk around, deceiving people while having an illicit affair.
All I had to do to have this was not look at my wife as if she was property to possess and control. I had to allow her the freedom to find happiness in ways different from the happiness she finds with me. She had to do the same for me.
I will not claim that the journey to successful polyamory was an easy one, for it was not. The payoff however was worth much more than the price we paid.
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Bon jour Cam.
As You and Mistress Milliscent know, i have known the both of You for some number of years now. First coming under the seductive sensuality of the Lady whom i call my Owner. Even though it has been way too long since i have worshipped properly at Her feet, it is through my service to Her that i became acquainted with You.
i have never found anything unusual with either of You -- on the surface. But being a slave in and by itself is not something that is open to all and it is from this perspective that i have to view You and Your lifestyle. And yes, there may be less open minded people who may scorn all the possibilities that Your chosen lifestyle has become. As a slave to Mistress Milliscent, it is only natural to expect, understand and be comfortable with Her owning other slaves. i have to imagine that it is also only natural that two strong minded people find common ground in sharing their lives with the freedom to pursue all the happiness and pleasures possible. Perhaps there is a trust and bond there that is so strong and unique that it may cause problems for others for they cannot understand all that it means.
It has been a very enlightening experience for me to see my Mistress and You grow and flower together into a self-made world that You wanted and made happen. Personally i am even saddened for not being lucky enough to be able to serve as loyally and frequently as Eagle does. i am somewhat surprised that this site has become reality, but will look forward to Your continued writings and adventures with Tammy and Roxanne and of course my Mistress flying to new heights with Her Eagle. Both of Your writings are always stimulating and adventurous, and although i am fighting my jealousy for not being included, i look forward to living vicariously through any and all that You wish to share.
Thank You Cam and thank You Mistress for giving my mind a new road to travel along with You.
slut paul
Posted by: Paul | May 4, 2008 6:34 PM
Paul,
Thanks for stopping by the blog. I hope that you enjoy bits of it from time to time.
We have both enjoyed getting to know you, and are honored by all of the wonderful things that you do for us. We hope that we are able to reciprocate that friendship.
As for this little blog, it was conceived as a way for me to learn a new blogging platform. Maybe with time it will grow into something more, only time will tell I suppose.
As you know our relationship has changed, and does change, sometimes in quite dramatic fashions. Those changes never seem to harm it though, in fact I would venture that they make it stronger. I do each day presume myself a very lucky guy for having the opportunity to meet her.
Meet her before all of her other admirers had an opportunity to woo her! ;-)
Posted by: cam | May 4, 2008 7:22 PM